professional massage therapist, artist, writer, lover, mama, foodie, yogi, traveler, music worshiper, confidant, hippie, poetry reader, lyric lover, passionate one.....
Friday, November 12, 2010
Me.... L.M.T.
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
What I Love....
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Faith?
My co-pilot...and no, I'm sorry to disappoint, but it is NOT Jesus.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Order to Disorder
There are many layers to order.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
LOVE...
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Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Cordial Cross-Roads
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Chosen Family
Monday, March 22, 2010
The SOUL Exchange
May I ask...
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Old Blog Entry, Made New
Top Ten Reasons You Should Hire A Wedding Planner
By Amy (wish I had one when I got married) Marvin
- Consultations: Most planners do not charge for an initial consultation. Give them a call to see how they can help! You don’t lose anything; if anything you gain some ideas and maybe an advocate for planning your big day.
- Services: Planners will share with you their “menu” of services. It can be “Full-Service” or anything from initial planning of your theme or colors, to assisting you with drafting a budget, and of course the “day of” service, so you and your family & friends can fully enjoy your wedding day.
- Budget: An extension of the services menu is budget. To stay within your monetary boundaries, planners will work with you to best meet your goals and hopefully get the most “bang” for your buck.
- Resources: Why go all around town, making your head spin when you can tap into your planner for vendor recommendations. Not too impressed by their list, or looking for something different? —Your planner will make every effort to help you find it.
- Theme: You have likely spent your entire life up to this point, envisioning the perfect wedding with that special someone. Your planner can help you fill in the gaps by providing some ideas that you may not have thought of, and take your dream wedding “to the next level”.
- Organizational Skills: I have yet to meet a planner who didn’t possess some level of amazing organizational skills. You’ll want someone to keep you on task…planning a wedding is no easy feat, especially if you are organizationally challenged. (Like I was! —Ok, I still have my ADHD moments.)
- Time Management: Let’s face it. Who has extra time anymore? Yeah, you’re getting married, but you’re probably also working, or going to school, or both—and more! Your planner can save you precious time by making the phone calls, coordinating meetings, drafting contracts, etc.
- Guest Care & Accommodations: Your planner can help you with your out of town guests. Details such as travel, car rental, entertainment, and hotel accommodations will be helpful to your weary traveling guests.
- Worry-Free Wedding Day: Did I mention “Day-Of” services? Believe me when I say that you need to be free of the nagging details of hosting a major event.You are the bride, you should be primping, preening, and gazing into the eyes of your new spouse, not directing the caterers to take out the trash or reminding the guest book girl to keep her feet off the table.
- SANITY: And the number one reason again? Keep your sanity, and enjoy the process of planning a wedding. Your Wedding Planner will be there every step of the way, and provide you the joy you deserve at this special time in your life…. who knows, you’ll likely end up with another best friend!
Friday, March 5, 2010
Rhys-Man Turns 5
My baby turned 5 years old March 2nd, 2010. My BABY is 5. Wow, how time flies. He's such a lover too. I tell him I love him, "my little man". He says, "I love you too, baby-mama". *SIGH* How could that not melt the coldest of hearts?
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
How To Be A Good Client
- Stop talking. If you need to chat for a minute, I understand, especially if massage is new to you. Please know that it's OK not to talk, in fact, it helps me to have it quiet, so I can better focus on how your body is responding to the work I'm trying to do.
- Release the tension. Yes, that's my job, but you need to let go...literally. You must consciously release the tension of holding your muscles tight. I try to tell my clients to think of when a child goes "limp-noodle" on you---such as when you try to carry a two-year old, and they are throwing a fit because they don't want to be held, so they go completely limp, and slide through your arm like a sieve. Yep, like that. LET GO.
- Ask Questions + Give Pointers. I know I said no talking, but what I meant was no chatting. Please ask me questions about what I'm doing, why that hurts, or what that bump is. More than likely, I will know the answer, and if I don't, I will get back to you with one. Also, don't be afraid to give me pointers...go ahead and tell me to linger in an area that feels like it needs more work. I won't know how something feels to you, unless you tell me.
- Do your homework! Any good therapist will give you what we call "homework". Anything from "Drink lots of water today" (my personal favorite), or assigning specific stretches to do. There's a reason we ask you to do this, and it is for your own benefit and progression away from pain and discomfort.
- Book your next appointment right away. I know what you are thinking....that I say that for my own benefit. And that is partially true. ;-) But it's more for you. You will walk out of the session, relaxed, and not wanting to commit to anything but some leisure time, and maybe a nap. You'll put off making the appointment...then before you know it, weeks have gone by, and the pain, stress, and tension are still there. Book it! You can always cancel it later. (24 hour notice is preferable.)
- Continually strive for a healthy YOU. Noone is perfect, and we should never beat ourselves up for falling short. Just love yourself for what you can do, and keep going.
For a healthier you, try some of these. They aren't rocket science, but sometimes it's nice to get reminders:
- DRINK WATER. Soda depleats your body of vital nutrients and moisture.
- MEDITATE. I don't always have time for it, so I incorporate it into my bath/shower time. A few minutes with my eyes closed in silence, I relax into the heat of the water, and open my mind to my thoughts.
- STRETCH. Take a few minutes to stretch. The easiest time is in the evening in front of the TV. You may as well make that time productive.
- GO VEGGIE. If there's too much meat in your diet, then pick at least one day a week when all meals are vegetarian. Then, as time goes on, try to incorporate more veggie meals per week. You don't have to give up meat completely, but mixing it up will give you a more varied diet and better mix of nutrients.
- LAUGH. That one's self explainatory. Enjoy life, and all it's pleasures. This one happens to be free of charge, always makes you look good, tends to be contagious (in a good way), and is completely healthy for you.
To book a massage with Amy Marvin, please call:
480.495.3270
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Monday, February 15, 2010
Sleepless Nights
What is it about sleepless nights? Sure, they can be frustrating...but on a night like tonight, it's my mind going a mile a minute in speed. My thoughts are interlaced, as if they were a finely crafted network of silky-spun spiderweb. My thoughts are tricky...fast, but then slow without any kind of notice. I suppose it's because I am allowing myself to BE in the moment. That's why nights like this don't have to be frustrating. They are good, and welcoming for the soul. We need these precious few spaces in time to get to know ourselves...allow for free-flowing thought (say that fast 3 times), and to work out in our minds any issues or dilemmas we have before us.
I'm choosing to embrace this process in me. I believe it is signaling a time of transformation and growth.
"The main symbolisms of the dragonfly are renewal, positive force and the power of life in general. Dragonflies can also be a symbol of the sense of self that comes with maturity. Also, as a creature of the wind, the dragonfly frequently represents change. And as a dragonfly lives a short life, it knows it must live its life to the fullest with the short time it has – which is a lesson for all of us."
--www.dragonfly-site.com
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Old Fashioned Journaling vs. Modern Day Blogging
Ok, I made the leap. This is new for me. I'm not used to exposing so much of ME in such a public forum...or so I thought. Actually, now that I think about it, I do it all the time. Facebook, MySpace, Twitter...I've been slowly adding them to my daily activities. I was hesitant to start a blog, as I am an old fashioned gal when it comes to journaling. My journaling life has consisted of the on-again, off-again spurts of inspiration. Always private, I'd lock myself in my room as a teenager, light a candle, put on my favorite "mood-music" (a.k.a. The Cure, DM, New Order, Peter Murphy, The Smiths, or the like) and scribble away madly, as if I were some modern day Virginia Woolf. As the years progressed, my journaling took the form of drawings, paintings, collages, or photo albums. Now, I have decided that it is time to express myself in word, thought, ideas, and action. I still hold on to my old journals, and I have a couple of new ones now, for myself...they will physically hold the thoughts that I do not need to share.
"The beauty of the world which is so soon to perish, has two edges, one of laughter, one of anguish, cutting the heart asunder." --Virginia Woolf